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Why Mediation Intake Matters: The Hidden Risks of Skipping Straight to Session
Wondering why you can’t just “get to the point” in mediation? Skipping intake might feel efficient—but it can derail everything. Here’s why mediation intake matters more than you think.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 84 min read


How to Handle Dominating Clients in Mediation: Strategies for Family Law Professionals
If you're navigating high-conflict mediation or facing dominating personalities in your practice, we can help. Contact Alliston Resolutions to learn more about coaching, consulting, or professional support for family law mediators.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 63 min read


When Overcontrol in Separation Becomes the Problem: A Mediator’s Perspective on Fear, Control, and Self-Sabotage
Is your partner turning your separation into a never-ending debate? Learn how overcontrol in separation sabotages progress—and how mediation can help restore peace and clarity.

Michelle Rakowski
Aug 53 min read


When Mediation Stalls at the Finish Line: How Drafting the Separation Agreement Rebuilds Momentum
Is your mediation stuck just before the finish line? Drafting the separation agreement can bring clarity and momentum when you need it most.

Michelle Rakowski
Aug 43 min read


Why Family Law Mediation Deserves a Place in Legal Education
Legal education still centers on courtroom battles—but what if the most ethical path in family law is mediation? Here's why it matters more than ever.

Robert Goronovsky
May 143 min read


Navigating Narcissism in Mediation: How to Stay Grounded When the Process Gets Manipulated
Mediation sabotage isn’t always loud. Narcissism often hides behind victimhood. Learn how to spot and manage these silent disruptions.

Michelle Rakowski
May 73 min read


How to Handle a Liar in Mediation: 5 Strategies for Staying Neutral and Effective
What do you do when one party lies during a session? Learn how to handle a liar in mediation with 5 effective strategies.

Michelle Rakowski
Apr 232 min read


Setting Boundaries with Mediation Clients: How to Protect Your Time Without Losing Business
Tired of endless emails and unpaid labor? Learn how to set boundaries with mediation clients without losing trust or professionalism.

Michelle Rakowski
Apr 232 min read


Communication Skills That Prevent Conflict: How to Defuse Tension Before It Begins
Tired of walking on eggshells? Learn communication skills that prevent conflict so you can defuse tension and create healthier, more peaceful relationships.

Michelle Rakowski
Apr 113 min read


The Importance of Building Trust in the Mediation Relationship
Trust in the mediator fosters open communication, reduces defensiveness, and encourages parties to explore solutions more willingly.

Michelle Rakowski
Mar 133 min read


How Mediators Create Balance in Power-Imbalanced Relationships
Rather than correcting long-standing imbalances, a skilled mediator creates an artificial balance—an environment for fair negotiation.

Michelle Rakowski
Mar 102 min read


Divorce Home Title Transfer: How to Change Ownership Without a Lawyer
Many divorcing couples assume they need family lawyers to transfer a home title from joint to sole ownership. This is not legally required.

Michelle Rakowski
Mar 83 min read


Divorce and Income Property: What Are Your Best Options?
This article will explore the best choices for handling an income property during divorce, including key tax implications in Ontario.

Michelle Rakowski
Mar 83 min read


How to Resolve Conflict Like a Pro: Mediation Strategies That Work
Mediation strategies offer a structured approach to resolving disagreements while maintaining relationships and promoting understanding.

Michelle Rakowski
Mar 53 min read


How Shifting Perspective Unlocks Growth and Creative Solutions
By asking, “How can I see this differently?” we create space for fresh insights.

Michelle Rakowski
Feb 273 min read


Understanding Family Systems Theory: How Roles and Dynamics Shape Relationships
Family Systems Theory suggests that issues within a family stem from an interconnected system, not just one person.

Michelle Rakowski
Feb 263 min read


How Creativity in Mediation Shifts Perspectives in Coaching and Conflict Resolution
This post explores how creative thinking reshapes the psychology of conflict resolution.

Michelle Rakowski
Feb 253 min read


The Power of Creativity in Conflict Resolution and Healing
Creativity in conflict resolution is about engaging the imagination, exploring alternative perspectives, and break free from rigid thinking

Michelle Rakowski
Feb 233 min read


Seeing Both Sides: The Power of Neutrality in Mediation
The goal is not to determine who is right or wrong but to help both parties understand that multiple perspectives can exist at once.

Michelle Rakowski
Feb 213 min read


When Clients Ask for Deferred Fees
Discover the hard-earned lessons of setting clear payment policies, maintaining professional boundaries, and valuing your time and expertise

Michelle Rakowski
Jan 34 min read
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