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When Your Ex Is Not Following the Parenting Plan
If your ex is not following the parenting plan and you’re feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or stuck, you're not alone. Book a free consultation to explore your options and gain support that puts your child’s needs first.

Michelle Rakowski
Jan 64 min read


What to Do When Your Ex Overgifts: Setting Healthy Boundaries Around Holiday Spending
The Holiday Tug-of-War You're trying to create a balanced, meaningful holiday, then your child comes back from their other parent's house loaded with gifts. When your ex overgifts , it can feel like an emotional ambush. The spending isn’t just excessive, it’s disruptive. You might feel sidelined, frustrated, or worried about what message it sends your child. The good news? Even if your ex doesn’t change, you can create calm, set boundaries, and protect your values during the

Michelle Rakowski
Jan 24 min read


Managing Extended-Family Expectations When You’re Navigating Divorce During Christmas
Feeling pressure from extended family while going through divorce during Christmas? Learn how to set healthy boundaries, prioritize your peace, and make room for a holiday that works for you.

Michelle Rakowski
Dec 23, 20254 min read


Holidays After Separation: How to Blend Old Traditions with New Realities
Facing the holidays after separation? You’re not alone. This compassionate guide will help you let go of old expectations and build new traditions that work.

Michelle Rakowski
Dec 22, 20253 min read


Christmas Co-Parenting: How to Simplify Decisions and Ease Emotional Overload
Feeling overwhelmed by Christmas co-parenting decisions? Learn how to reduce stress, simplify logistics, and create more peace this holiday season, for you and your kids.

Michelle Rakowski
Dec 9, 20253 min read


When an Ex Is Sending Inappropriate Texts to the Kids: What You Can Do
Is your ex sending inappropriate texts to your kids and creating conflict? Learn how to protect your children while keeping communication open, and healthy.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 29, 20255 min read


Communication for Co-Parenting: Creating Calm After Separation
I can’t count how many consultations I’ve had where one or both parents show up feeling anxious, guarded, or already exhausted by conflict. But I’ve also lost count of how many times those same people leave that first meeting looking lighter. Once they understand that we’re building a system, not a battleground, they begin to see that this might actually work.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 29, 20253 min read


How Structured Communication After Separation Helps Children Thrive
Separation can be hard on kids—but clear, structured communication can make all the difference. Discover how to create emotional safety between homes, reduce conflict, and support your child’s well-being, plus get your free Family Circle Session Guide.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 25, 20254 min read


When Children Don’t Want to See the Other Parent: What Courts Consider in Custody Disputes
Is your child refusing to see the other parent? Learn how courts handle these emotional custody disputes—and what steps you can take to protect your child’s well-being.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 25, 20255 min read


Divorce Without Damage: Protecting Children During Divorce
Want to protect your kids from the emotional fallout of divorce? There’s a better way. Discover how one parenting choice can make all the difference.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 18, 20252 min read


Teaching Kids to Think: Why Critical Thinking Starts at Home, Not University
Think your child will learn how to think at university? Think again. Real thinking begins at home. Here's how to parent with purpose and build lifelong critical thinkers.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 13, 20254 min read


Balanced Parenting for Single Parents: Raising Independent, Resilient Kids
Single parenting requires more than love, it requires balance. Learn how to raise independent, resilient kids by combining nurture with challenge.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 13, 20254 min read


How Family Circle Meetings After Divorce Create Connection and Clarity
Feeling disconnected from your kids after divorce? Family circle meetings can rebuild trust, invite open conversations, and create emotional safety in your home.

Michelle Rakowski
Nov 9, 20253 min read


What If Raising an Obedient Child Cost Them Their Voice?
There’s a sacred difference between obedience and alignment. Obedience says, Do what I say so things stay under control. Alignment says, Let’s both listen for what feels true and kind right now.

Michelle Rakowski
Oct 7, 20253 min read


Answering Kids with Clarity: A Game-Changer for Single Parents
Tired of answering your kids with “Because I said so”? Learn how answering with clarity, not reaction, can turn daily struggles into connection and growth.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 30, 20253 min read


Moving After a Divorce in Ontario: What You Need to Know About Relocation
Thinking about moving after a divorce in Ontario? Learn how Divorce Act amendments affect relocation, notice requirements, and what courts look for.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 26, 20253 min read


Co-Parenting Back to School: How to Navigate Transitions with Less Conflict and More Clarity
Co-parenting during back-to-school season can bring unexpected stress. Learn how to reduce conflict, divide responsibilities, and support your kids with clarity.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 25, 20253 min read


Divorce Budget in Fall: How Autumn Impacts Separation Costs
Autumn can sneak hidden costs into your divorce budget. From school fees to heating bills, learn how to plan ahead and avoid financial surprises this fall.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 25, 20253 min read


Talking to Kids About Divorce Without Causing More Pain
Talking to kids about divorce is never easy. Learn how to break the news with compassion, honesty, and the right words for their age.

Michelle Rakowski
Sep 12, 20253 min read


Section 7 Expenses and Child Support: What You Need to Know
Child support doesn’t stop at a monthly cheque. Learn what Section 7 expenses are, and how to navigate these often misunderstood costs with clarity and fairness.

Michelle Rakowski
Oct 1, 20244 min read
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