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Learning How to Self-Represent Yourself Is Learning How to Advocate for Yourself

Judge in black robe sits at wooden bench with scales emblem, addressing six standing individuals in a courtroom. Serious mood.

If you’re considering representing yourself in court, let’s start here: yes, it’s hard. There’s no sugar-coating that fact. Whether it’s your own self-doubt or the raised eyebrows of others, stepping into a courtroom without a lawyer can feel intimidating. There’s still a lingering stigma around self-representation, even as more Ontarians are choosing to go this route.


But here’s the encouraging truth: that stigma is slowly fading, and with it, a new kind of empowerment is rising. Because when you learn how to self-represent, you’re doing more than just navigating a legal process. You’re learning how to advocate for yourself.

And that’s a skill that ripples into every part of your life.


Why Consider Self-Representation? Let’s Talk Costs and Control


If you’re still on the fence, one of the biggest motivators is likely cost. Family lawyers in Ontario average around $250–$400 per hour, and that’s just for entry- to mid-level support. Complex cases? They can quickly soar into the tens of thousands.

And while many lawyers are ethical and competent, it’s also fair to acknowledge the uncomfortable truth: not every professional works in your best interest. Some may draw out cases, steering you toward unnecessary motions or delays that benefit their billable hours more than your peace of mind.


Self-representation changes that.


You gain 100% control over the direction of your case. You make the decisions. You set the tone. You know the stakes. Is it more responsibility? Absolutely. But it’s also a chance to reclaim your voice, especially in moments when you may have felt silenced or pushed aside.


Feeling Uneasy About How To Self-Represent? You’re Not Without Support


Learning how to self-represent doesn’t mean you have to do everything alone. In fact, it works best when you build a circle of support around you.

Some excellent online resources include:



But what if you’ve already explored those, and you still want some real-time, personalized help, without hiring a lawyer? There are now more services available for that middle ground.


For example, Law Prep Consulting offers tailored coaching for self-representing litigants across Ontario, both in-person in the GTA and remotely elsewhere.

And right here in Simcoe County, Alliston Resolutions is now offering coaching for self-representing individuals. If you live in the area and are looking for local support that meets you where you are, emotionally and practically, you now have another trusted option nearby.


If You’re Considering This Path, Here’s What I Want You to Know:


You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to start learning. Self-representation is challenging, yes, but it’s also a deeply personal journey in self-advocacy, resilience, and courage. And whether you use online tools, legal coaching, or both, you are not alone in this.


Next Steps

If you’re interested in support while navigating self-representation, Alliston Resolutions now offers 1:1 coaching tailored to your needs. Contact us to book a free discovery call or learn more about our self-representation support services.



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