The Holiday Tug-of-War You're trying to create a balanced, meaningful holiday, then your child comes back from their other parent's house loaded with gifts. When your ex overgifts , it can feel like an emotional ambush. The spending isn’t just excessive, it’s disruptive. You might feel sidelined, frustrated, or worried about what message it sends your child. The good news? Even if your ex doesn’t change, you  can create calm, set boundaries, and protect your values during the